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I am resolute with my intentions... or something like that...

Let me start by saying that I have a pretty kick-ass boss. I have heard criticism from some who say they cannot see eye-to-eye with her because they cannot seem to wrap their heads around her unconventional management style. And truth-be-told, as someone who is usually able to objectively examine from almost all angles, I can see their point of view and why they might feel this way. But that is a conversation that I cannot have with them because it would ultimately end with us declaring an impasse. Yes, her management style is a little unusual. But that is why I love, admire, and respect her. She has a heart, and she is a sucker for giving people chances, sometimes more than they deserve. She has a big presence and almost no filter; she is a no-bullshit kind of person. She is a strong leader and almost always wears her strongest game face, but she gets her feelings hurt just like the rest of us. She runs an entire program with 35 employees, doing her best to hold it together while jugg...

Mortified Much?

I was having a conversation with a friend earlier today when the subject of "our most embarrassing moments" came up. Now, friends... let me preface this story by saying this: when I tell you that I am not easily embarrassed or offended, you can pretty much bet money on it. I am often a "no filter" kind of person and will sometimes say things just for shock value and to get a laugh. Of course, I don't do this just anywhere; I have to know that those around me aren't going to clinch their ass cheeks and run to H/R or shove a crucifix to my forehead and call me a heathen. With that said, please note that I did declare that I am not easily  offended; I never said it was impossible. Case in point: Picture it. Nashville, circa the early 90's. I was around 21 years old when I found out that one of my childhood musical idols, Sylvia was going to be playing an intimate show at The Bluebird Café. Now, for those of you who have never heard of her or may be t...

Sorry to keep you waiting...

Happy Saturday! I apologize for the delay. I had promised you a new blog a couple of weeks ago. However, life sometimes gets in the way and we have to re-prioritize. I really do have every intention of being more proactive with this blog as I come up with more content to share other than just my personal life experiences. So, I truly appreciate those of you who hang in there with me because you actually care enough and have enough interest in what I have to say. Much love to you! 💖 I had recently posted photos and status messages from the hospital on social media; some of you may remember the pic of the hospital gown. And many of you reached out with concern to make sure that I was okay. While comforting, this made me realize that I need to do a better job of thinking through my posts before I actually put them out there. I apologize for sending some of you into a panic as that was the furthest from any real intention. If I may, I'd like to share - full disclosure - what has tra...